FI/RE Diaries: A 32 year old teacher living in as small town in the Midwest and FIRE-ing in 23 years with $1M

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Occupation: Elementary School Teacher

Industry: Public Education

Location: Midwest

Age: 32

Salary: $45k

FI/RE Number: $1M

Years Until FI/RE: 23 years

Current financial situation: Married, Single Income

Ethnicity: Caucasian

How did you first hear about FI/RE?

Instagram Debt Free Community #DFC

Why do you want to reach Financial Independence/Retire Early?

I don’t enjoy my job and would like to enjoy my time more.

What does FI/RE mean to you?

FI/RE would allow me to focus on the aspects of my life I enjoy, rather than simply having to work to earn an income.

What types of big expenses does your FI number include?

Mortgage payoff. My husband is currently in grad school, but we both received full rides to undergrad. The only consumer debt we have is my husband’s medical school. Cars were payed in cash!

How much do you spend per month? Save per month?

Spend $2,000 and save about $500

What is your % savings rate?

About 20% after taxes

Are you doing anything to achieve FI/RE faster? If yes, what?

Side gigs - DoorDash, Instagram, and VIPKid

Any advice you'd give to someone who has a similar FI/RE lifestyle as you, especially if it seemed hard or unattainable?

Start somewhere. Even when it feels like what you can do currently doesn’t matter, it all adds up.


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FI/RE Diaries: A 25 year old mechanical engineer living in the Bay Area and FIRE-ing in 15 years with $2M

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Occupation: Mechanical Engineer

Industry: Medical Devices

Location: Bay Area, CA

Age: 25

Salary: $90k

FI/RE Number: $2M

Years Until FI/RE: 15 years

Current financial situation: SINK

Ethnicity: Asian/Pacific Islander

How did you first hear about FI/RE?

My sister started learning about the concept of FI/RE and got me hooked on the idea. I had just started working full-time and didn’t really know what I was doing with my money. I’m naturally pretty conservative with my spending, but I had everything in a normal savings account and none of it invested. I’ve still got lots to learn, but I’m definitely making smarter choices!

Why do you want to reach Financial Independence/Retire Early?

I like the idea of having financial stability. It makes me feel secure knowing that if anything were to happen to my career, I'd have the money I need to survive without it.

What does FI/RE mean to you?

I'm mostly focused on the FI part. To be honest, I don't see it changing my life completely, but it will give me peace of mind in my financial status. I'll be able to work on my own terms and not feel obligated to stay in situations I don't want to be in because I need the money. I'm also looking forward to taking time off to travel when and where I want without feeling guilty about the expenses!

What types of big expenses does your FI number include?

Traveling! I’ve got a long list of places to explore and I don’t want to feel limited by money.

How much do you spend per month? Save per month?

I spend $1000 - $1500 and save about $2500

What is your % savings rate?

About 70% after taxes

Are you doing anything to achieve FI/RE faster? If yes, what?

Working on those side hustles and being intentional about my spending.

Any advice you'd give to someone who has a similar FI/RE lifestyle as you, especially if it seemed hard or unattainable?

Consistency is key. You may not see your money grow immediately, but looking back over a couple of years or even months, it's encouraging to see all the progress you've made. And while you're focused on saving for retirement, don't forget to set aside some $$ to treat yo self today.


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2021 Money Goals and Recapping My 2020 Financial Resolutions

2020 you guys, such a year! With everything going on though in the world I think it's a good time to reflect on all of the goals I set for myself, and my hopes and my dreams looking into 2021. Some things went really well, better than anticipated, and some things honestly fell flat. I think having the grace to move forward and reflect back on what was and wasn't working in the end makes me a stronger and better person.

I'm excited to share with you the goals that I set for myself, what I did, what I accomplished, and what goals I have looking forward in the future!

1. Get a contract in the Bay Area

My first goal of 2020 was to find a contract up in the bay area. I have been living in Los Angeles for the last 10 years. I really wanted to be able to be closer to family and also get to experience San Francisco. I was really excited to try living up here and it wasn't until March that I was actually able to get a contract. I was freelancing for the first three months of the year and I wasn't sure if anything would pan out. Fortunately something did...and then the pandemic hit. Now I work completely from home. On the downside I never got to experience what it was like living in San Francisco. Here we are in month eight of this quarantine. So yes, I obtained my goal of finding a contract in the bay area, unfortunately it's not quite the experience that I anticipated.

2. Work in fintech tech

My second goal for 2020 was working in fintech. What I want to achieve is financial independence so earning more money is obviously a way to help you get to financial independence quicker. I knew I wanted to be in fintech because it would merge the tech money with my love of finances. I was thinking about something like Credit Karma, Wealthfront, or Robinhood— all brands that I really love. Unfortunately, I did not get a job in the fintech space. I did end up finding a contract and job in the tech space. My second goal I did achieve, but only part way.

3. Savings rate at 60% 77%

My third goal of 2020 was to save 60%. Actually for this goal I ended up saving quite a bit more. My 2020 savings rate this year is somewhere in the range of 77%. There are a couple of factors that contributed to this unanticipated bump in savings rate. Speaking to my last point, I ended up with a contract in the bay area and in the tech space. Fortunately for me my job has been pretty secure throughout this year. There weren't any major layoffs and they continued with my contract, so that was one factor.

The second factor is that I am still living with my parents. I am 29 now and living with my parents, which I never really anticipated. When I moved up to the bay area, I thought I would only be here for a few months while I figured out where I wanted to live in the city of San Francisco and find a spot to really be integrated in the bay area life. However, that did not pan out and I am still at home. Because of that I am able to save a lot on rent.

Then the third factor is I'm always inside. I used to go out with my friends. We used to go to brunch, go out to bars on the weekends and that used to be a pretty big chunk of my monthly expenses. Because of the pandemic, I haven't been able to do any of that. My goal of saving 60% has definitely been hugely impacted for me from the pandemic.

4. No spend year

The fourth goal of 2020 was to do another no spend year. I had done a no-spend year a couple years ago and it went really, really well. It is honestly the main contributing factor to jumpstart my life into personal finance and figure out investing. Because of that I was thinking in 2020 that I would do another no-spend year, but I did not accomplish that goal. The other day I bought a pair of fluffy slippers at the thrift store, which I don't really know where I'm gonna wear them to, but they were only $6 and I need some joy in my life right now. 2020 was not a no spend year, it was a very, very low-buy year. I think I only got like five new items of clothes. Overall I spent probably less than $200 in total on all my clothes. I also tried to buy secondhand.

That being said, give yourself grace if you don't reach your goal. I know we're not perfect but I do try to keep my spending to a minimum. I think as long as you're trying and doing your best I think that's the best we can do.

5. Host a clothing swap

Building on top of that, my next goal was to host a clothing swap. I love hosting a clothing swap. I love being able to bring a bunch of people together to find joy in getting rid of their old stuff and also feel like they're getting like new stuff. It's a great way for me and my friends to all hang out and get together and “shop.” Whatever didn't get swapped got donated. It's rewarding and fulfilling being able to pass things on and give something a new life. 

6. Rebalance my portfolio

For 2020 I knew I really wanted to learn how to rebalance my own portfolio myself. For this goal I built a rebalancing spreadsheet, which you can download for free, that would help me rebalance my portfolio. My portfolio is modeled after the Bogleheads three fund portfolio. Basically I invest in three index funds—a total U.S. stock market index fund, a total international stock market fund, and a total U.S. bond market index fund. With those three funds I allocate a percentage of my portfolio to each.

Whenever I go to add more money to my accounts I'll put that dollar amount into my rebalancing spreadsheet and it will tell me how much of that dollar amount to buy or if I'm truly rebalancing I sell some of my assets, usually in my tax-sheltered accounts to reallocate some of it. If I'm over-indexed in stocks, I will go buy more bonds. I like to rebalance on a quarterly basis but I think it's also okay to do it on a half-yearly basis.

8. Max out 401K and IRA

In 2020 for the very, very first time in my entire life I was finally able to max out my 401k and my IRA. I've been able to max out the $6,000 in my Roth IRA for the past three years and finally this year in 2020 I was able to contribute the full $19,500 to my 401k portfolio. That was a huge accomplishment. As soon as I got my contract in March I knew that that was something I wanted to do. After taking a look at all my expenses and deciding to stay with my parents, I knew that that was a goal of mine that I could for sure accomplish.

I'm a big believer in front loading your portfolio. My initial percentage for my 401k came out of my paycheck at 40% to really front load it and get it over with ASAP. I didn't even see that money.

8. Start Millennial Money Honey podcast/Youtube/blog

Lastly I had some big goals for Millennial Money Honey. I went full into millennial money honey in September 2019. I bought the domain, bought the website, and finally decided that I'm gonna do this. My goal for 2020 was to start a podcast and that actually evolved into this, which is my youtube channel. I also decided to blog more frequently. Initially my goal was two posts per month, but I went quiet for a little bit and instead decided to release a blog post for every video that I launched. With the launch of this youtube channel, I've been able to blog promoting the video content simultaneously. I try to be extremely efficient with how I work and operate and use content for Millennial Money Honey and it has been much more streamlined. 

I'm still getting into the groove, but I think I'm slowly, slowly finding it. Those were my goals for 2020...some of them wild success, some of them less of a success, but I'm looking forward to taking my learnings from my failures and successes of 2020 and looking forward to 2021.

1. Extend design contract

My first goal of 2021 is to extend my current design contract. I really, really love where I'm at. I'm happy with my team and the work that we're doing and it's really fun. I am also hoping we find a cure for this pandemic and I actually get to experience the bay area because that's what I came here for and that's what I'm most looking forward to. Hoping in 2021 I'll finally be able to experience that.

2. Savings rate >80%

Because of my decision to continue living with my parents through 2021 my savings rate goal is 80% now. That is extremely high, way higher than my goal last year. I think I will be able to accomplish that given the situation that I put myself in.

3. No “brand new” clothes. Get rid of clothes if I buy something “new.”

My third goal is instead of a no spend year, I want to do a no new clothes year. I don't mean no clothes, I mean clothes that are secondhand. It's new to me but it's not brand new. If I do buy a new to me article of clothing, then I will have to reevaluate my closet and give up a piece of clothing that I own. I already have a ton of things and I really don't need more, but I love things so I'm trying to be better about that. As I buy new things I'm going to let some things go.

4. Max out my 401K and IRA

Next year for 2021 I also want to continue the trend of being able to max out my 401k and my IRA. I am again planning on front-loading my accounts. I'm saving up $6,000 so on January 1st or within the first month of the year, I can boom send the $6,000 and max out my IRA. I am also going to try and front load my 401K. Right now I'm not contributing anything to my 401k because I maxed it out, but I'm going to increase that back up to maybe around 30-40%, whatever I feel comfortable with.

5. Post 1 Youtube video per week

I think my financial goals don't really scare me at this point. I'm like I know I can do that. I'm confident in myself. The thing I'm less confident in is growing this business, to be honest. My next goal is to make one Youtube video per week. Since I've launched this channel, I have been extremely consistent about posting one a week, but I also launched in October, which means there were only I think nine weeks left of the year. It's been really fun and really easy but I'm also scared I'm not going to be consistent. (Hold me accountable!) Along with that, I want to be super transparent with you, my goal is eventually to monetize this channel...like a side goal. My main goal is more to put out stuff that's interesting and fun and watchable things that you want to see.

6. Formalize MMH business

And then building upon that I really want to establish Millennial Money Honey as a business. Right now it is all mixed up with my personal stuff and I think I need to get my shiz together. That for me is looking into opening a SEP IRA, opening a business checking, and a business credit card. I want to keep all of my finances separate from my regular life. That is a big huge goal for 2021—to figure out the business side of my brand.

7. Gross $100K income

And then finally my goal for 2021 is to gross $100k. Actually last year in 2020 I was able to achieve that and I want to maintain that same momentum. I'm not really looking to go over that because I did a lot of design freelance work. While I really enjoy design, it is a huge time suck when I'm working 9 to 5 and doing design work throughout the entire day and then after work I also have to do more freelance design work. I really do not want to do that in 2021. All of my income will hopefully be from this brand and from my 9-5 contract job. 

I hope you guys are inspired by my goals. Send me a DM, leave me a comment, shoot me an email and let me know if you guys have great ideas for financial, personal, business goals for 2021. I would love to hear them! One of the main reasons I'm putting this out there is to hold myself accountable. If you see me throughout the year and it’s like, “Hey Catie, that's not looking too good!” Shout me out, call me out because I'm here for it. This is why I overshare!

I really appreciate all of your love and support and if you liked what you saw hit the like button subscribe hit the notification bell to get notified when I drop my next video or if you're tuning in on the podcast subscribe wherever you listen to your podcast and I'll talk to you guys soon.


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Ask Me Anything: FIRE Edition

The other week, I did a little Ask Me Anything sticker over on my Instagram, @millennialmoneyhoney, and asked people to submit some questions for this. Today I’m answering your real questions!

What are the best resources to learn about FI/RE?

The best resources I found to learn about FIRE...I'll just give you the first three that come to mind off the top of my head. There are three that I used to start my own journey, the first being Mr. Money Mustache blog, which I think a lot of people look to when they start their own FIRE journey and it's almost like a cult. It's called Mustachianism and it's pretty extreme. All education should be taken with a grain of salt, but that was a good first resource because it puts you in this mindset of the shockingly simple math behind retiring early. Its super catchy titles are like wow, that's awesome, I want to retire early too. So Mr, Money Mustache blog. 

The second one that I binged was the Mad Fientist podcast and his blog too. It’s actually really good. He goes over Roth IRA ladders and all these things, which I'm not even gonna get into detail here but his blog is really simple and breaks everything down with graphics. 

Then finally, I would recommend Our Rich Journey’s YouTube. Aman and Christina are so relatable, so awesome. They retired in Portugal and they make awesome YouTube videos and they're just so relatable. I love watching all of them! Those are three resources that I would use to start your personal finance journey.

What age did you start investing to be able to retire early? 

I started investing my own money and doing all the trading myself when I was 26. Kudos to everybody else who had started younger and kudos to you if you're starting now. Investing is so important, but it wasn't until I was 26 that I actually started investing and that was through a robo-advisor, Wealthfront. I highly recommend Wealthfront.

I had no idea what I was doing before. I had a Charles Schwab brokerage account at the time, a custodial account that my dad set up for me. But he never really taught me how to use it or what to do or how to trade on it or how to use the service, so I didn't even really touch it. I ended up doing index fund robo-advisor myself and I recommend using that for beginners.

How soon do you feel comfortable talking about finances in a new relationship?

I'm kind of an anomaly when it comes to talking about finances. Obviously I run Millennial Money Honey on Instagram and on YouTube, so it's only a matter of time. Even prior to being in a relationship, I bring it up. You know when they ask what's a hobby of yours on a first date? (That is literally always a first date question, always. I kind of hate it.) I straight up tell them I am passionate about financial literacy and helping people learn how to manage their personal finances. I tell them I want people to be able to discuss money without it being taboo by sharing my own journey and figuring out my personal financial life. Most guys are super chill with that and very supportive. I actually haven't met anybody who wasn't chill with that.

But I think the way to approach talking about your finances once you're in a relationship is opening up your perspective on how you deal with finances and then that in turn makes your partner feel comfortable to talk about theirs. I don't think it's necessarily the right move to ask them, “Hey, what's your credit score or hey, what's your finance situation or how much debt do you have?” 

You can only approach things after being vulnerable yourself and as long as you're not in that judgmental space. I think it's super healthy to bring it up as soon as you can and as soon as you feel comfortable talking about it and if you trust that person that no matter what you say, they won't judge you too hard. As long as you make it clear to them that you are working towards becoming better and improving it no matter your situation, I think as soon as you can you should do it.

How many kids did you want if you had married at 24?

So obviously if you haven't heard, I started Millennial Money Honey and taught myself about investing because I always thought I would get married and my husband would take care of the finances. That is not what happened… better off for all the boys I loved before to not have worked out. So here I am at 29! But if I had kids at 24, I would have wanted four kids. I grew up with the four of us—me and my sisters—and I love the dynamic we have. That being said I am older now, and I think I would compromise at three. It’s still a lot, but that is how many I want. 

Where did you get your tax plan info from for retirement withdrawals? 

Our Rich Journey has a great YouTube video on the benefits of an HSA for retiring early that maximizes all the tax benefits. Another reference is the Mad Fientist blog for Roth conversion ladders, which is another way to minimize your taxes. Go Curry Cracker has a good article on minimizing taxes, and the book Quit Like a Millionaire by Kristy Shen has an excellent couple chapters. Those are some awesome tax hacking things you can do to minimize your taxes during early retirement. 

How do you set boundaries when living with parents?

My parents are pretty chill! They don't invade my privacy, and they respect my boundaries. I'm super fortunate and lucky to have them. If anything, I probably invade their boundaries more than they invade mine. As you can tell from how much I overshare on my Instagram on YouTube, I really don't have boundaries.

Do you have long-term housing goals?

I think I'm getting too old to “house hack”, so I would definitely buy long-term and rent it out if I didn't want to live in that spot anymore. For now my plan is to rent as long as I can until I am in a financial situation where I feel comfortable spending the money it takes to buy into California real estate in the Bay Area or in Los Angeles. I will definitely buy one day, but it won't be a part of my financial strategy—just purely for happiness!

What does your budget look like? 

I actually have a blog post on how I budget, but how I budget is...basically, I don't budget. A lot of people use zero-based budgets in the debt free/FIRE community, or YNAB to give every dollar a job. Essentially what I do is I automate all my accounts. I have auto-transfers set up that trigger after every paycheck. Once that money goes out, I don’t even think about it. In addition to that, I have this padding of maybe $4,000 in my checking that is always there, so I know that I can spend on whatever I want as long as I don't go below those thresholds. I don't think, “Oh, I only have $200 to spend for drinks this month, and it's dwindling” or “I have $40 to spend on clothes”.

I know myself, and I've tracked my expenses long enough to know what my average monthly expenses are. When I'm not living at home with my parents, it’s about $2,000. I know that I will probably spend about that much, so as long as I have enough in my checking account, I don't really care where it gets spent.

What is one thing you would never hesitate to spend money on?

If I had to choose something to spend money on, I would choose travel—balling out on traveling. When I went to Japan, I spent around $3,000, which is not that much, but it was a lot for me. I stayed at nice hotels, went to spas, ate omakase meals. I spent $200 on a meal and didn't even blink. That, to me, is definitely worth spending on.

What is the best credit card for a newbie?

I am by no means a credit card hacker. I really only have one credit card, and that is the Citi Double Cash Back card. I'm not a travel hacker or credit reward system gamer. For me when I chose that credit card, I was looking for a no-fee, easy, straightforward credit card. This one gives you 2% cash back on everything and anything. It's not like other cards that are focused on categories. I don't spend in any one category enough to warrant that benefit, so for me Citi was a great, super simple 2x cash back on everything.

That being said, I don't recommend opening a new credit card if you struggle with spending money. Credit cards are a lot of responsibility. But Citi 2x cash back is a great option and I highly recommend it for a first-time credit card. Eventually I want to get more into travel reward travel hacking, but seeing as we're in the middle of a pandemic, I’ll be sticking with my Citi card for now.

What do your parents think about your financial journey?

My mom doesn't manage finances at all, so she's like if you want to become work-optional and get yourself there, more power to you. She's supportive. My dad I think is less supportive, but he doesn't really say it. He'll come around one day when I'm FIRE, I think. My dad and I have very different investing strategies, but he’s taught me to work hard and that money will come. They're very supportive of working hard to earn your money.

That's all the questions we have today. If you have any more questions drop a comment below and leave a question. If you want me talk more about a topic, I'm happy to do so. Until then I'll be back next week and we'll talk more money honey.


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I'm Retiring at 35 // Financial Independence Retire Early (FIRE)

Welcome to Millennial Money Honey where we talk all things money! Today I wanted to share actually a super intimate look at my own journey into FI/RE, Financial Independence Retire Early and how I got the idea that I even wanted to retire, so let's talk!

My journey into personal finance actually started way back—I say way back 😂—back in 2017, when I was first making my own money and I had a decent salary. I was making $60,000 and so that was enough for me to save enough money and be like, “What should I do? Should I invest it? Should I save it? What do I do? How do I make this money grow for me?” But I had no idea what financial independence or what that concept was.

Two years later I was at work and a friend sent me an article to the Mr. Money Mustache blog—basically the bible of FIRE. And he has this article on The Shockingly Simple Math Behind Retiring Early. I read that and literally my mind was blown. Mr. Money Mustache actually retired at 30. How? What? Why? How is this even possible? I was hooked. He was a software engineer and crunched the numbers and did all the math and looked at historical studies. And after following him, I thought, “You know what, they all did it, I can do it too.”

I'm a graphic designer and so many of them are engineers and I knew that if they could do it, I could still achieve those results maybe on a different timeline. So I crunched the numbers and for me it would take me 10 years to retire so I would be 37. And I thought, “You know what, okay, this is super radical, but if I miss my goal at least I would still be on the path towards becoming financially independent and not having to work for money.” I could do what I've always wanted to do, which is to be a stay-at-home mom and take care of my kids and not have to worry that I need to be working and I can't be there with them. That was my eye-opening experience.

I started with the Mr. Money Mustache blog, and I'll link all of these links below, but after that I binged the Mad FIentist podcast, and then I proceeded to watch all of Our Rich Journeys YouTube videos. Between all three of them they blew open my mind about tax-advantaged savings accounts, what an HSA was, a 401k, and how I should be maximizing all those to take advantage of retiring early.

Until September of 2019 I was not tracking my expenses at all. I am not a spreadsheet person. I know some of the flack that financial independence movement gets is often that people live in the spreadsheet. They become extremely frugal. I think when you first find FIRE it is this notion of where can I nickel and dime everything? So I've had to shift out of that mindset. I would beat myself up for the longest time, but I'm still a work in progress. 

It's harder for me to spend money than it is to save and invest it. That is how I know I am financially literate because it's such a struggle for me to spend it. It's like well, I could invest it and then that dollar could become fifty dollars in a couple years. But that being said, I think it's so important to even get started on your FIRE journey. If you have to move and adjust it, it'll change and be fluid with you. You quickly realize, yes, you can nickel and dime, you can cut back your spending, but also a lot of it is how can I increase my income?

There is a fine line between going for the highest paying job and also finding happiness at your job. I think it's important to find that medium where you're not hating your life. Actually in the current job that I am in, it's not the highest paying job that I could have gotten. It is a job that I'm happy at and that I am living comfortably at. I'm happy in this lifestyle while I work towards my goal for FIRE. It's not by any means that I'm making a little bit of money, I'm making a lot of money relative to the average person. I think that's a key factor towards starting your FIRE journey, which is how can I increase my income?

I increased my income by moving from advertising into tech specifically. So many of these people who are in the FIRE community like the Mad FIentist and Mr. Money Mustache and even Kristy Shen from Quit Like A Millionaire were all software engineers. I cannot be a software engineer, like I just cannot. I do design, but for me it was figuring out how I can get into tech to make that tech money. Engineers obviously make more so they can retire a little bit faster, but for me that's obviously a trade-off that I'm willing to take because I'm not an engineer.

In September of 2019 I started line by line tracking every single item that I would spend my money on so I could see the ballpark of what I was spending. I finally was able to calculate my savings rate, which I had never done before. I didn't even really know what a savings rate was. I started tracking all my expenses and figuring out what my savings rate was, which is the percentage of money that I was saving. I discovered that I was already in the 60% range, but I could push that up to the 70-80% range. Even though my initial target was retiring at 37, I am currently scheduled to retire by 35 now. 

As my income has increased, my spending has decreased. I've set myself up to retire a little bit earlier, which two years is not insignificant. So we'll see! No, we won't see, it's gonna happen. I think you have to put out the intention that you believe something will happen. Half of FIRE and in all personal finance, is having the mindset that you can achieve something. If you don't think you can achieve results, then you're already setting yourself up for failure. That's one of the key mentalities I have when I think about my own personal finance journey—anything is attainable. It's just what you're willing to sacrifice for and creating actionable steps to achieve that goal.

For example, it's always been my goal to make six figures before 30 (gross income). So I look at what progress do I need to be making to achieve those results. For me that’s moving from job to job to job and always negotiating a little bit higher, a little bit higher, a little bit higher…or a lot higher. At one point I leapt from a $70,000 to an $85,000 salary just switching jobs. I’m always moving, always growing, and have a hunger and thirst to achieve that goal. It is something that really fuels my FIRE.

FIRE is so financially-focused and you're always working towards hitting your number, which for me mine is $1.25 million dollars to be able to “retire early” and never have to work again. But at the end of the day it's not all about money, it's about finding joy in living and life. That's why I say I took a pay cut. I was earning $80/hr freelancing, but I took a pay cut to take for $58/hr because that is the trade-off of happiness. 

It’s finding that balance between money and happiness and even though you are working towards the goal, it is about the journey. It's not the end in mind, it's about the whole process and experience. I'm sure when I hit $1.25M it won't feel any different. It will just be like, “Okay, I've reached my goal, yay!” I mean yes, I will be so excited, but at the end of the day it's just a number. Will it drastically increase my happiness? I don't know. It will be the journey that I look back on and really find happiness in. 

So if you're starting your FIRE journey today, if you are still on it, if you've already FIRE-d, I would love to hear more about your story. How did you find FIRE and what you hope to achieve? Because I think it's all about finding this little community of people who maybe think a little different. Maybe some might call you crazy, but people have done it, people are doing it, they're living the dream and I just want to create this little bubble and be supportive of all the people who are on their own financial independence journey. Even if you don't retire early I think being financially independent is still for everyone!

As always you can find me on Instagram @millennialmoneyhoney. If you liked this video, subscribe to my channel and let's talk money, honey!


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